Category: Reflections on One Year
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reflections on one year: on the other side of fear (a letter to myself)
In this series In my final months in the PCA, I had a candid conversation with another member of the presbytery who understood and sympathized with why I was leaving. He said, “We’re sad to see you go. You are one of the good ones and they’re lucky to have you. I’d consider leaving too…
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reflections on one year: forgiveness means to wish you well
In this series It’s taken me just as long to read my story as it took to write it, and the last parts were written shortly after attending a Blue Christmas service which is happening tonight. I guess no one is really holding me to a one-year window, but at the same time I really…
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reflections on one year: one final “dear church”
In this series Over the years I’ve written several dear church posts to my former congregation that were reproduced on the church’s blog. This final one will remain on this site alone: Dear King’s Cross Church, Thank you. For a long time after my departure, it was difficult for me to see you all as…
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reflections on one year: gratitude
In this series It’s taking a while to go through my story. I’m going at whatever pace I think I can go. I’m glad I left headings so I know what’s next as I read (and these headings also inform me of when I might need to stop). Yet as I bounce back and forth…
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reflections on one year: imperfect memory
in reflectionsIn this series I’m coming up on one year since I parted with my former church of over a decade. I promised myself that I would not revisit my written story (that I wrote at the end of 2023) until one year later. I had written it all down so I could leave it behind…